Showing posts with label rhythm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rhythm. Show all posts

Sunday, November 13, 2011

How to Save on Groceries & New Rhythm

Although we’ve always looked for ways to save on our grocery bill, a recent and hopefully temporary shift in my workload has forced us to buckle down, take an even closer look and get creative.  It’s also helped me to examine our family’s weekly rhythm and make a few positive changes.  I’m seeing how these two things go hand-in-hand.

A good friend loaned me the book Miserly Moms, and it’s giving me some good ideas and, better yet, it’s helping to spark some of my own ideas that will work for my family.  Some of the stuff in the book I’d already figured out through common sense and have been applying for years, but other parts are purely inspiring, such as the idea that being frugal doesn’t mean you’re depriving yourself.  A-ha!

I’ll skip the obvious money-savers, but I thought I’d share some of my own tips and tricks that I’ve been using over the years and a few new ones that just came to me within the last week.  I hope some of them are helpful to you and your families!  After that I’ll share our updated family rhythm, which combines my recent goal to get more organized and our family’s goal to spend less money on groceries.

Here goes!

1.  We buy generic brand groceries whenever possible.  Whenever possible actually means whenever we can tolerate it.  For some products, the price savings just isn’t worth the sacrifice in taste or quality.

2.   We only buy chicken and beef when it’s on sale.  We stock up on chicken especially when it’s on sale so we’re not without it during all the weeks it’s not on sale.

3.  We’re going to try making homemade treats, like cookies or brownies, and breads, instead of buying ready-made ones at the store.  This is a no-brainer for those like me who love to bake, but it’s going to take my husband some time to adapt.  He loves his Entenmann’s.  As for breads, we buy sliced bread and Italian loaves for sandwiches and sometimes rolls for specific meals.  We always eat the bread, but the rolls sometimes get forgotten or we just can’t finish them.  This is when I should be making time to bake bread and/or freeze the remainder of store-bought rolls before they get stale.  I plan to experiment to find out what baked goods freeze well, and which doughs freeze well so we can pop rolls in the oven when we’re short on time.  I’ll keep you posted!

4. We’re going to have breakfast for dinner at least one night each week because it’s so inexpensive.  Last week my T.J. made quiche Lorraine; this week I’ve already made French toast.  Eggs and bread are cheap and we can often find bacon buy-one-get-one free.  For breakfast sandwiches and quiche, you can cut the pound of bacon in half and use just half of it now.  Wrap and freeze the second half for later.

5.  We’ll also have pasta at least once a week.  My husband makes his own tomato sauce, which is dirt cheap, and we freeze it in batches.  We’ll need to get creative in this area, as he prefers having chicken or eggplant parmesan.  I’m dying to add zucchini or summer squash to my pasta and tomato sauce and have is sans meat.

6.  We need to try much harder to eat everything that we buy, including leftovers.  Too often, we don’t eat all of something or we don’t finish our leftovers.  I’ve always felt bad wasting food, but now I feel even worse when I think about all the cold, hard cash we’ve been wasting over the years.  Since we had to throw out everything in our fridge after the snowstorm and power outage, we’re starting with a clean slate—a perfectly clean and still empty-looking fridge.  I hope this will help us see and notice what’s in there so we actually eat it before it gets too old.  Same with our freezer.  (P.S. – This is going to be harder than it sounds because my husband has been ServSave Certified and he knows more about food safety than your average person.  He won’t let us eat food that’s more than two days old.)

7.  Labeling leftovers.  I mark Nathan’s leftovers so our babysitter knows what to feed him for lunch on the days I work, but I’ve always neglected to label our own.  Who wants to open an oddly shaped foil package of who-knows-what only to guess at how old it might be?  That’s an intimidating task, one we all to often skip, letting perfectly good leftovers go to waste.

8.  As soon as we get our groceries unpacked and put away, we write up a menu for the week.  We’ve been doing this for years to keep track of what we have on hand, especially for dinner, our main meal.  It stinks finding out that you’ve let vegetables go bad because you forgot about your plan to make stir fry later in the week.  Also, writing out our weekly menu helps us identify which meals need to be made earlier in the week while the ingredients are still fresh.

9.  We plan to stretch our meat further than we’ve ever stretched it before, although I don’t have a plan for this one just yet. 

10.  We’re trying to use less paper towels by using rags and reusable cloths to wipe down the counters.  We’ve always used regular hand towls for drying hands and dishes.  But I won’t give up paper napkins just yet… I have enough laundry to do, thank you!

I hope these tips help some of you or maybe hehlp spark some ideas of your own!

Weekly Menu & Daily Rhythm:

Monday, October 3, 2011

Establishing a Fall Rhythm & Blogiversary Giveaway #2

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It’s October already, and I still don’t feel very well into a fall rhythm.  T.J. wasted no time getting back to normal “family mode” when summer ended—he jumped right into cooking, helping with Nathan and doing his usual things around the house—and I’m so grateful to have him back.  But it hasn’t been feeling like fall to me and the shock of summer still hasn’t worn off.  I’m still smarting a little bit from the hardest summer ever and I guess it hasn’t hit me yet that it’s really over.  I think that’s because it only started feeling like fall this past weekend when the weather finally cooled down.

There’s a coolness in the air (with which came a wetness—when will we ever see the sun?), leaves are finally starting to turn and fall from the trees and the days are already getting shorter (that’s my least favorite part of fall).  Finally, it’s here!  My fall decorations are out, I’ve been knitting like a fiend and today I bought some new warm clothes for my ever-growing boy.

Tomorrow my pottery class will start (yay!) and two hours away from home paired with a new(-ish) kind of creativity will do me some good.  If anything, all the extra family time should help it hit home!  Hopefully our new rhythm will come together very soon.  I think I’m the only hold-out!

Some photos from our walk today, when it finally hit me.











 
Blogiversary Giveaway #2

Today I’m giving away a set of five Autumn Blessings note cards.  I didn’t just yank these babies from my Etsy shop—they’re a set I made just for this giveaway!  They look much nicer in person than my indoor photography would allow (trust me).  They're handmade using archival quality inks and glue—I have several other sets of handmade note cards in my shop.


To enter the giveaway:


1. Mandatory: Follow Creating a Family Home via Google Friend Connect.
For additional entries:

2. Like Creating a Family Home on Facebook and leave a comment saying you do.  (If you already like Creating a Family Home on Facebook, leave a comment saying you do.)


         

3. Follow me on
Twitter and leave a comment saying you do.  (Ditto.)

4. Post about this giveaway on Facebook or Twitter (or both) and leave one comment each.

That’s five possible entries per person!  Entries will stay open until 8 p.m. on Tuesday, October 11.  I’ll use a random number generator to select the lucky winner and will announce the winner the following day.  Please make sure I have a way of contacting you. 

Good luck, and thanks for following!

P.S. In case you missed it, blogiversary giveaway #1 was yesterday—a hank of Knit Picks Stroll Handpainted in the fall-inspired colorway Playtime.  Check out yesterday’s post to enter now!

Monday, July 25, 2011

Gifts to a SAH, WFH Mom

I’m a stay-at-home, work-from-home mom in a rural community.  And as you might be able to imagine (or maybe you’re going through it, too!), I can sometimes feel pretty isolated.  Days on end go by where I don’t [get to] leave the house (or the farm, which feels like the same thing).  Sometimes there’s nowhere to go, or it takes too long to get there in between naptime and dinnertime.  I don't even have neighbors to chat with. 

I get out when I can and go shopping or meet up with a friend, but it’s not as often as I’d like.  Nothing (and no one) is nearby, so everything requires advance planning and extra time for driving.  This is one of my excuses for a gift I just got myself—I call it the gift of connectivity.  Really, that’s just a fancy way of saying I finally broke down and bought myself the new iPhone.

And can I tell you something?  I LOVE THIS FRIGGIN’ THING!  Until now, I’d always scraped by with old, lame, useless phones (meaning, all they did was make calls—hah!).  It’s sleek and shiny and the screen looks amazing.  I can  go on and on about all the features it has that I don’t use… but I’ll spare you.  At first it was a little scary (read: addicting) to be able to so easily check e-mail and Facebook way more often than is necessary, but the newness has worn off a bit and I can really see the value in this phone-that-does-just-about-everything.  I really like having connectivity at my fingertips.  It may sound silly, but it feels good to be able to see what my friends are up to and check on things—including my work e-mail—without getting completely sucked in.

My other excuse for the new phone is to stay in better touch with you, my readers and friends, through my blog’s Facebook page and Twitter page.  Please go check them out and join in on the two-way conversations!

 Moving Toward Balance: 8 Weeks of Yoga with Rodney Yee

The other gifts to myself involve much-needed exercise.  For the past two or three weeks I’ve been waking up in the morning before Nathan to do yoga for at least a half hour.  Yoga leaves me feeling energized and invigorated, and I can already feel myself getting stronger.  Muscle memory is incredible—restarting a serious yoga practice after a nearly two-year hiatus has been easier than I expected it to be.

My favorite, most vigorous yoga DVD so far is Power Yoga - Total Body Workout with Rodney Yee. Some easier workouts that I do in between the harder ones are A.M. Yoga for Your Week (five workouts each with a different focus!) and Power Yoga for Stamina.  I know yoga well enough that I don’t need to follow DVDs or sequences in a book, but my mind often wonders, so direction from Rodney Yee really helps me concentrate and get the most from my practice.  If anyone wants more good DVD or book recommendations, hit me up on my Facebook page or leave a comment here.


I’ve also been going for walks after Nathan’s in bed at night—the epitome of “freedom.”  (You can tell I don’t get out much, and when I do, I’m never alone, thanks to my husband’s job.)  A few weeks ago I took these awesome sunset photos and really felt the weight of my responsibilities lift, just a little, and for just a few minutes.  These walks are the only time I’m truly alone.  It’s relaxing to plug into my iPod (now, iPhone!) and go wherever I want on the farm without a stroller to push or hold me back.

The efforts and time spent have been paying off—I’ve already lost 2.5 pounds!

A mom deserves some gifts to herself every now and then.  I hope you moms out there find the chance to do the same.  I think I'm going to find other ways to "give" to myself, similarly to how I give my all to my family every day.

Monday, June 20, 2011

Just a Mom

I’m still in a decompressed state from the weekend (that’s a good thing), and I’m so glad I get to stay this way all week because I’m on vacation from work!  That’s 10 blessed days without worrying or thinking about work.

Now don’t get me wrong—I love my job and I love being a freelance writer.  Other than becoming a mom, it was what I dreamed of, my all-time goal, when I found out such careers existed back when I was an intern.  And I love my client.  Literally.  I actually, really love her.  Outside of work, we’re great friends, and when we’re on the clock, we make “the most awesome team ever”—her words—and I agree.

The best part of being a freelancer is that I get to work from home and can be available in a heartbeat unless I’m on a conference call.  It was especially convenient while Nathan was nursing—our babysitter would just knock on my office door and tell me he’s hungry!

But even though I have the best possible scenario for work, nothing beats the rhythm of my days at home with Nathan.  (I work three five-hour days a week, so I have four days a week where I just get to be a mom.)  Our days together have such a great rhythm and flow, with some parts of our day flexible and changing and other parts regularly scheduled, more or less, like lunchtime and naptime.  It’s a luxury for us (me) to do whatever we (I) want during our downtime.  These days are more relaxed and pleasant, run more smoothly (for me, anyway) and are clearly more fun for me.  : )

I think the days are about the same for Nathan—that’s the biggest benefit of having a babysitter come to our house.  I don’t have to wake him up early in the morning, he gets his meals at the right times and in his own high chair, he gets to nap in his own crib and he gets to stay in the familiarity of his own home.  These are major bonuses, plus I can be on the scene in seconds if anything crazy were to happen and I can sneak kisses from Nathan just by opening my office door.  It really is great.

For me, my rhythm is totally off on the days I work as I try to cram everything in before the babysitter gets here.  I find myself running around, trying to straighten up and clean the kitchen from breakfast…tossing laundry in the washing machine because it’s the only time I can do it…calculating how much time I have left and what else I can get done…and then, of course, I want to spend time with Nathan before I have to close my office door.  By the time I’m done working for the day, he’s already up from his afternoon nap and I’m on Nathan duty—and all I want to do is spend time with him doing something fun (and not catching up on chores).


For these 10 days I’m going to savor every extra minute with my beautiful, smart, sweet little boy.  I’m enjoying not having every minute of my day scheduled around my work and chores, and instead, my day is centered around my son and the fun we can have together.  We’ve already picked strawberries, waded in the baby pool and visited the zoo with some friends—a lot of fun for this strawberry- and animal-loving water baby. 

Leaning forward to see an animal at the zoo.

Our boys in front of the bison pen at the zoo.

This week I can do laundry whenever I please, take Nathan somewhere fun whenever the mood strikes me, spend a lot of time outdoors together, do a little gardening and rest a bit while he naps—something I don’t get to do on the days I work.  I’m so happy that I can be just a mom.  You know, just.
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